I think life has never been one-sided. It's just that you don't look on the bright side of it. Everything happens for a reason, even the baddest thing ever happens to you there's a reason behind that. It's just a mindset, if you stuck in your head that you are an ill-fated human being.. Your life would be miserable. It is you who decide what would happen to you, either you want a change o be consumed with your irrational beliefs that you are nothing and there can be no transformation to your life. You can't see the sun shining if you do not open your eyes and look up. I've seen a lot of people who are almost nothing but pursued to get up and move on with their lives. Life is just a matter of choice, choices that would make a change to your life as well as to yourself. I have come to realize that there is so much in life for us to be so disappointed with what ever is happening to you. Remember God who loves us unconditionally, who loves us not based on what we do but loves us based on what He is. 
